Weeknight Recipes

I have always loved to cook. Growing up, my Mom always made the best meals and gave me good hands on experience in the kitchen. After becoming a mother myself, I realized I still needed to find a way to make great dinners, but ones that are easy enough for anyone. 

This post is going to be 5 of those recipes that are the easiest for me & yummiest for our family. I find a lot of my inspiration through pinterest, and then make my own version based on that! 

I hope you enjoy some of these as much as we have. Happy cooking!

1. Tostados

1 Tablespoon Olive Oil

2 Garlic Cloves- Minced

1 Half of a Sweet Onion- Chopped

1 Jalepeno (seeded)- Chopped

1 Tablespoon Cumin

2 Teaspoons Chili Powder

1 Can Red Kidney Beans- Draines

1/4 Cup of water

Hard Tortillas

Mexican Cheese

Salsa

Lettuce

Sour Cream

-Heat oven to 375.

-Heat oil in a large skillet over medium heat. Add garlic, onion, and jalepeno and cook until softened. Add the kidney beans. Take a large fork or masher, and mash mixture in skillet until smooth with some chunks. Add the spices and mix. Add roughly the 1/4 cup of water and simmer until no longer runny. 

-Spread mixture evenly onto about 6 hard tortillas. Top with cheese and bake for 5-7 minutes. Cheese should be golden and bubbly.

-Top with whichever remaining ingredients you like!

2. Taco Salad

1 LB Lean Ground Beef (turkey or chicken taste great as well)

1 Packet Low Sodium Taco Seasoning

2 Cups Ranch Dressing

1 Bottle Medium Taco Sauce

1 Can Black Beans

1 Can Yellow Corn

1 Bag Chopped Romaine Lettuce

Tortilla Chips

1 Cup Mexican Cheese

-Brown meat in the skillet until fully cooked.

-Meanwhile, combine ranch and taco sauce.

-Add lettuce, black beans and corn, tortilla chips, and cheese to a bowl and mix together.

-Toss dressing and salad. Put servings in a bowl and top with the prepared meat! 

3. Hawaiian Chicken Thighs

2 Packages of Chicken Thighs (usually 4 come in a pack)

2 containers of Hawaiian Marinade

1 Pineapple

1 Bag of Saffron Yellow Rice

1 Can Red Kidney Beans

-Rinse chicken and place in a container with marinade and let sit 4 hours, or overnight.

-Prepare rice according to package, and add the can of kidney beans, rinsed & drained, while rice is cooking.

-Heat grill to 400. Cook thighs about 12 minutes per side.

-Slice pineapple and grill until charred.

-Add all to plate and serve!

4. Sun Dried Tomato Pasta

1 Box Penne Pasta

1 LB Chicken Breasts

1 Packet Italian Seasoning

1/2 Cup Sundried Tomatoes w/ Herbs and Oil

1/3 Cup Chicken Broth

1/2 Cup Spinach

-Boil pasta according to package.

-In a skillet, heat sundried tomato oil over medium-high.

-Prepare chicken, and coat with 1/2 packet Italian seasoning.

-Cook chicken until it has reached 165 internal temperature.

-Add tomatoes, chicken broth, and spinach, and rest of italian seasoning.

-Toss with pasta and serve.

5. Tex Mex Chili

1 LB Ground Beef (again, turkey or chicken taste great too_

1 Packet Tex Mex Seasoning

1 Can Yellow Corn- drained

1 Can Black Beans- drained & rinsed

1 Can Fire Roasted Diced Tomatoes

Tortilla chips

Mexican Cheese

Sour Cream

-In a pot over medium high, brown beef until throughly cooked.

-Add corn, beans, tomatoes and seasoning. 

-Reduce heat to simmer for about 15 minutes.

-Serve in bowl topped with remaining ingredients.

Well, there you have it. My top 5 weeknight meals. These are super easy to put together, and all bursting with flavor!

Look in the future for more posts like this, along with a baked goods version.

Happy Eating!

The Myth of Having It All

Whoever said being a SAHM is easy, has it wrong. Let's not be fooled, it is not all daises and butterflies around here. 

There are days when i'm surprised the house isn't engulfed in flames. Dinner isn't always ready at 6 P.M. with a fully set table and dimmed lights. 

Laundry is usually in piles around the house, hopefully all clean. 

There are trails of sticky toddler feet from whatever he got into in the fridge. 

Dog hair is in my muffins. 

But, the one thing that is right, is that my child has a smile on his face. 

Giggles that can be heard from streets away. 

A momma that is there for him each step of the way.

A place that he calls home, no matter how messy it may be.

In reality, children could care less about a perfect home. They could care less about leftovers for dinner or a fresh hot meal. What they really need, is attention & guidance.

In the end, that's what they will remember. 

What we taught them. Not how often we mopped our floors.

My house wont be spick & span from top to bottom when you come over. 

My dog will jump on you, because she is part of the family too.

If you're coming for dinner, it'll most likely be a pizza night.

Moms (and Dads)...take a break from worrying about perfections, and soak up the moment. 

Read your kids a new book. Take them outside and show them new things. 

Don't be so quick to tidy up their toys when they'll just throw them back everywhere 5 minutes later.

It's easy to get caught up in the moment of perfection, but what really matters is the fact that your children are growing up, so don't miss those extra moments. 

I won't always have an answer when you ask what I did this day, because I have a swarm of things in my head that happened.

One day, things will settle down. But that't not today, and sure won't be tomorrow.

See you again

Like time suspended, a wound unmended- you and I.

We had no ending, no said goodbye;

For all my life, I'll wonder why.

I wasn't sure if I was going to write this, because not many people knew. We only told close friends, and a couple of family members, because it was still quite early. But, writing this is helping me grieve in a way. It is letting me appreciate life, although sometimes that life is too short, it is still there. 

On May 2nd, Alex and I found out we were expecting our second baby. We had planned this and were beyond happy when I told him the news. We told our parents the following week, and then I had an ultrasound May 15th to confirm and check the baby. After that we told our closest friends-a handful.

At that ultrasound, I was confirmed to be 6 weeks 1 day. We saw the baby, and heard the heartbeat, but it was so tiny so it was a bit hard to read. I was told that the heart rate was 91, but not to worry. I did worry at first. I read posts after posts of moms, all having different outcomes with the pregnancy. I began to pray about the safety and health of my baby, for protection. Everyone told me it would be fine, since Daniel is perfectly healthy, and was a good pregnancy. So, I trusted in that. I went on feeling great, happy as ever, created a pregnancy announcement, bought a big brother shirt for Daniel. We were all so ready to welcome a new pregnancy, and a new baby in the coming months.

Sometimes I had cramps, but never any signs of anything else. So I just assumed it was "growing" pains. I had those a lot while pregnant with Daniel.

On June 12th, I went in for my monthly followup. My doctor brought out the doppler listening device, and proceeded to check for the heartbeat. There was a lot of static from the machine, so she got a second one. Still a lot of static, no heartbeat made out. She said not to worry, but to come back in the afternoon when the ultrasound technician was there, to get an internal ultrasound. We went back at 4:00 pm. I was supposed to be 10 weeks. The ultrasound tech had a concerned look on her face, and my doctor walked into the room. They both studied the ultrasound, playing some noise from the machine, taking pictures, but I didn't know what was going on. Everyones eyes on the machine, yet I couldn't see a thing. My doctor proceeded to tell me that my baby had stopped developing shortly after the 6 week ultrasound. That my placenta was starting to detach. That I lost the baby. Alex immediately grabbed my hand, my doctor standing and holding my knees, and I sobbed. Sobbed for myself, but for my baby, who I was not able to provide for. The technician gave us a moment, ended the ultrasound, and we went into my doctors office. 

I thought maybe she would look at the pictures, tell me something different. Tell me anything positive. But, she didn't. She explained that this happens in 1 out of 5 women, even after a healthy pregnancy and baby. And that women go on to have more healthy pregnancies and babies. But I didn't care at that moment. I wanted this baby. I wanted to watch him/her grow, develop, be born, and grow outside of the womb. I wanted to see who he/she would turn out to be.

We had a couple of options. I could wait for my body to miscarry naturally, and that could take up to 2 or so weeks before it started. I could take Cytotec- a pill for stomach ulcers, but that is also used to induce contractions and expel the contents of the uterus. I could get a D&C- a surgical procedure that scrapes and suctions the contents of the uterus. We spoke about all the options. We decided that in my case, I should try the pills.

Friday June 13th, I took the three pills at 9:30pm. My doctor described this experience to start within an hour of taking them, and for it to go on a couple hours after that, and that it would be very intense. I waited. We watched Breaking Bad. It was past an hour, and nothing. We watched more episodes. I started getting mild menstrual like cramps, and light spotting. I was so tired, so around 12pm we decided to go to sleep. I tossed and turned, never really fell asleep. It was 4am when I got a sharp cramp, and darker bleeding. But nothing more than what I was used to from having my monthly cycle. I laid back down, and woke up at 8am when Daniel got up. I continued to feel crampy, dizzy, and upset for the remainder of the day, still bleeding, but not what my doctor had explained.

I searched the internet, talked to a couple of people, and found that the pill is not always effective. In most cases, women have to go on and get the D&C procedure anyways. I didn't sleep much Saturday night either, and had very bad lower back pain. Sunday was more of the same as before, but no more back or hip pain.

The following day (Monday, June 16th) I called my doctors office first thing, and got an appointment for the afternoon. When I went in, she did an exam and then sent me in for an ultrasound. It showed that nothing had changed, the baby was still in there, and the placenta was the same. We talked afterwards, discussed the same options. I decided to give the medication another try. After hearing about more risks with the D & C procedure, we decided that it would by my last option.

Tuesday June 14th, I took the round of 3 pills at 3:30pm. I had immediate bleeding. As the evening progressed I started getting cramps, and by 8:30 it was full blown and very intense. I ended up taking Motrin around 10:30, and was able to fall asleep at 1pm. I did not get much sleep, as the cramps would wake me up, and going back and forth to the bathroom. When Wednesday morning rolled around, I had still been very crampy with heavy bleeding. That night I passed more large clots, which was the end of it.

I had an appointment on Thursday the 15th, and was able to get the ultrasound. It showed that everything had passed. It really hit me then and there that just one month ago I had seen the heartbeat in there. And now, there was nothing, nothing to watch grow or feel movement. I had lost my first baby, and it's something I will never heal from. 

I pray every night to the baby, that he/she knows how much love I have. How sorry I am that I could not provide somewhere safe or healthy. But, then I pray to God, and thank him for giving me the opportunity to hold an angel, who is so special, and was needed up in heaven, and that we will see again someday. 

For our friends and family that did know, I am so grateful for your heartfelt words and support through this.

Pregnancy loss is something that is almost never talked about. I don't understand why. It happens, and it hurts, and it's even worse when people aren't familiar with it. 

I wish more people weren't so "hush hush" about it. Maybe that would have helped me..If I knew.

Each day is a struggle. Each time I go to the doctors the sweet assistant asks "Are you doing ok?" I always answer yes, but I know Im just lying.

I pray that I will be able to heal, and I pray for mother's just like me, that we can all heal together.

I will see you again,

This is not where it ends

I will carry you with me

'Till I see you again.

Shifting Gears

July 1st, Daniel is now 15 months. I feel like just yesterday we were celebrating his 1st birthday. How can 3 months have gone by in a blink of an eye? 

It's crazy to me.

He is a big ball of energy, all day long. Climbing, jumping, falling, running, everything in between. He laughs at fear, and is the most adventurous little person I know.

We have been in the middle of a move for a month now. From our apartment-to my parent's house-to finally our new home, it has been a whirlwind. We are all glad that it is settling down, and we'll be back to our normal days. The house had a lot of work to do: Paint, remove carpet-lay tile, new cabinets, new appliances, re-do bathrooms, new garage door, landscaping. Everything that would need to be done to a home, we did. I am so happy with how it turned out, and so incredibly blessed for the move. It's going to be great having SO much space for Daniel, and we will finally have our German Shepherd back.

I used the title "Shifting Gears" because we have been doing just that. Sometimes we are moving slow, and sometimes we are moving super speed, but it's all going in the right direction. You can never understand life and what it throws at you but we have been living day by day, and we're enjoying it.

In these past 3 months, there have been many other obstacles we've been faced with. For myself, I went through a pregnancy loss. I won't be going into detail on this post, but when the time is right, there will be a separate post. My heart aches each time I think of it, but Alex and Daniel have gotten me through the worst of it.

I have also been very blessed in these past months, too, as my love of Young Living Essential Oils, is reaching out to others. No matter where this takes me, I am only in it to spread the word and touch other peoples lives. There is no greater reward than seeing someone feel better, and that's all I want out of it. If you have questions regarding Young Living, I urge you to please reach out to me, so I can help you! Feel free to go back in posts on my blog, and read up a bit on what I have to say. 

Cuckoo for coconut oil

I am always raving about coconut oil to any and everyone whenever I get the chance. It is SO amazing, and so very versatile. I finally had to dedicate a blog post to this awesomeness in a jar, so please enjoy! 

Coconut oil is known as a "Superfood", well because it's SUPER! In all seriousness, it's listed as this because of it's unique combo of fatty acids. These fatty acids aid in giving us so many health benefits. 

It has been shown that coconut oil has a therapeutic effect on many people suffering from a range of disorders, such as brain function or obesity. What I really love, is that the fatty acids also attack harmful pathogens, preventing illnesses or infections as well as helping you overcome the sickness much quicker.

A couple of my main uses for coconut oil are on my hair and body. I absolutely love using it as a moisturizer each night, and let the benefits just soak on in. Usually twice a week, I do a hair mask with coconut oil, either at night and cover with a shower cap, or early in the morning and then shower a few hours later. It has been amazing at reversing damage done to my hair over the years, adding the moisture back in, as well as helping my hair grow long and luscious in a short amount of time. For my face, I always use it as my moisturizer, and it's great for ALL skin types. Most people think (as I used to)  "I have oily-acne prone skin, I'm not putting oil on my face".. Wrong! Putting oil on your skin (I'm not talking about lathering it on like frosting) helps with the natural oils in your body, making a nice balance and leaving you with overall healthier and clearer skin. It is FABULOUS for acne, too, as the fatty acids break down the nastiness and give you a nice clean complexion. 

I love using coconut oil as a carrier oil for my Essential Oils, as well as cooking, and oil pulling. 

It's just pretty wonderful all around, and now it's your turn to fall in looooove with it..you'll thank me later!

Family photos

Here are our beautiful family photos, taken by Photos By Jewel.

I met Julie before Alex and I got married, as she was our wedding photographer. I loved her photos, her presence and professionalism. Ever since we got our Engagement pictures back, I was HOOKED on her work. Not only is she a wonderful photographer, but she is very personal, doesn't rush or make you uncomfortable, and is fun to be around. Shortly after our Engagement session, Julie announced she was pregnant! *For those that haven't seen our wedding photos, I was 6 months pregnant at the time.* We were so happy for her, and the fact that I had a new friend, and now our babies would be friends! She has taken many photos of our family as we grow, and I was lucky to make such a wonderful friend in the process. With that being said, if you are in South Florida, and are looking for a photographer, I can't say enough great things about her (can't you tell?). These are our most recent photos. She took Daniels cake smash, first birthday, and our family photos all around the same time.

Those were taken at the Morikami Museum, and it was absolutely beautiful!

Our life updates

I feel as if I have been so inactive with my blog, besides doing Young Living posts, I have not been so great at updating you all with our personal lives.. Sorry!

Lets begin with Daniel, always a good place to start. 

He is growing, growing, and growing some more. I swear he never slows down. Ever since he started walking a couple months back, he hardly ever stops moving. His new favorite activity: climbing! Lord, help me. He is a little rascal, but the cutest one for sure. Anything he can get his hands and feet on automatically become a challenge that he must complete. It's quite comical to watch sometimes.

Being outdoors is one of his favorite places to be. We currently live on a lake and the ducks are always outside swimming or coming onto our patio. I guess it is mating season for the ducks, because every couple of weeks there are lots of ducklings, the most i've seen are 14! Unfortunately, nature isn't being so nice to these babies, and they hardly ever make it. But, Daniel enjoys seeing them, and feeding them. One made a nest right under our stairwell, so every time we leave the house he waves hi & bye to her, even when she's not there he still peeks his head to the nest. I know he's going to love animals just like his momma. 

He now has all 4 molars in-making 12 teeth total, so chomping away on any and everything is now easy peasy. He weighs 23 pounds, and is 33 inches tall. Another haircut is going to happen pretty soon, because apparently he got his fast growing THICK hair from me, and he gets hot hot hot in this heat.

He's very smart in knowing which things go where, who is who, and letting us know what he wants. He knows who our dog is in a picture, all the characters of mickey mouse clubhouse, elmo, and of course Alex & I and our parents. When he's hungry, he walks to the highchair and points up, to put him in. Says and shakes his head no when he is done or doesn't agree with something. With all that good has to come a little bad, and when I tell you about his tantrums, that has to be as bad as it gets. I cannot believe my eyes when he throws these fits, he's only ONE! I have just begun to ignore him, leave the room, and when he is done he comes to me and everything is ok. He hates when I tell him no, but it is important to teach him right from wrong early, and although it's frustrating sometimes, I always approach the matter calmly, and talk to him through it. Even though he may not understand me, I feel that consistency is best.

Now that Daniel is pretty much spoken for, I have some updates on Alex and I, and our housing situation..

I am doing really well with Young Living Essential Oils. They have not only provided a secondary income for us, but a much more healthier life. I have been so blessed with stumbling into this company, and know that God had this set out for me all along. With that being said, Alex is also doing well. Currently, he went back to school for night classes in order to finish his degree. We could not be more proud of him, and all of his hard work. As far as schooling for me, I have my Doula workshop in October. It was originally for this June, but with a couple of things going on, it was best to push it back a couple of months.

We will be moving from our apartment into a rental home this June, and could not be happier about it. Although we would love to buy a home right now, it's not the wisest decision. The rental home gives us a lot of flexibility, and plenty of space. It is also much cheaper than our apartment, so we will be able to save more money for when the time does come to buy a home. 

With my 21st birthday coming up on June 3rd, I have reflected on all of the years that flew by. It amazes me how one person can change so much, all for the better. I have learned many valuable life lessons in my short amount of years, but being a mother and wife certainly has aged me more than others. I look forward to many more years of happiness with my family, and friends that have been there along the way.

Well, thats all of our updates! Following this post will be our family pictures that were taken last month. 

Thanks for reading!

Xo

Kelsey 

A look inside: 1st Birthday Bash

Hey all!
This is our better late than never birthday post.

Here are the details of Daniels Mustache Bash!

I handmade the invitations with the RhonnaDesigns app on my Iphone. It really is a handy app that has many features/symbols/edits/and texts to choose from. You can also select your size project before beginning. Then, I took them to Office Depot for printing.

I then ordered banners, confetti, cupcake toppers, dining ware, games, party favors, etc.. from Etsy and Oriental Trading. However, they only come as cutouts, so I assembled them after they arrived.

-bags filled with sippy/straw cups, mustache finger tattoos, stamps, lollipop, and a mustache whistle-

I ordered the cake and cupcakes from Whole Foods, because they are Vegan! And super duper yummy. The cake is the Vegan Carrot Cake, and it's OUT of this world! The cupcakes are vegan chocolate/vanilla.

The photobooth I made out of cardboard. I cut and made it into a frame, and then used chalkboard spray-paint to decorate. The back of the wall is baby blue, so it worked perfect for our color scheme. I also got fun props off of Etsy! 

Here are some photos from his cake smash, taken by Photos By Jewel.

I had a lot of fun planning his first birthday, and am looking forward to many more fun parties to have! There will be another post coming up (soon) with more pictures!

Xo

Happy Birthday, Daniel!

One year ago today, I had the most wonderful experience of my life thus far, by giving birth to my beautiful little boy! I woke up that morning just like any other day, got a bowl of cereal, and sat down to catch up on TV shows. As I was eating, I felt a POP, and a little wetness, but just thought I laughed too hard and sprung a leak (prego probs). I finish my cereal and go to the bathroom to feel that I was "peeing" for such a long time! I noticed something was off and started searching up "how do you know if your water breaks". I then got off the toilet to go wash my hands and a GUSH of water streamed down my legs..Water Broke! I called my husband, who was in school at this time, and he DID NOT believe me, and accused me of playing an April Fools Prank (you could imagine, a pregnant woman whose water just broke, followed by sudden painful contractions, hearing that she is JOKING) I could have killed the poor guy if he was in the same room as me. Needless to say, he was convinced and came home! In that time I took a nice shower, blow-dried my hair, did my make-up, and ate a snack. I called my best friend who out of town (just a couple hours north) and told her to get her butt home! I also called my mom, and Alex called his. OUR BABY WAS COMING! Around 12-1 p.m. we head to the hospital, signed in, and got settled in our delivery room. I was 3cm when I arrived, got everything done that the hospital needed, and asked for the epidural. However, they set it up so that I would get a little at a time, because I did not want the whole thing. This way, it took the edge off, but I still felt what was going on. I progressed fairly quick, and felt that "urge" to push around 7:30. The nurses still said I needed to dilate a little more, but we all knew that was not happening! The contractions were coming in HOT at this point and I literally felt like he was just going to fly out any second. Soon, the doctor came in and it was go time. I started pushing around 7:45 and getting used to the way to push correctly. I only had 3 people in the room, but everyone else was in the waiting room, and we had them on speaker phone through the whole thing (so awesome)! At 8:18 out came our BEAUTIFUL son! It was such a rush of emotions, so much love and happiness. I was able to grab him and pull him onto my chest with the last push, and that was the best moment of my life. If you are pregnant, DO IT!

This year has gone by way too fast, and I am honestly not ready for him to keep growing up! He has been the light in my darkest hours, and the instant smile I always need. Every day is a learning experience, for both of us, but I wouldn't trade this for anything else.

I will do another post on our festivities from his party and birthday. Thank you all for being a part of our first year together! To many more!

Happy Birthday my baby! You may outgrow my lap, but never my heart!

Young Living

Hey all! I am SO excited to announce my part in Young Living Essential Oils! I have been hearing so many great things about them, and decided to finally sign up as an independent distributor. This means that I got the Premium start up kit- 10 Everyday oils, a home diffuser, and the starter kit.

Since receiving these, I have been so pleased with each oil. There are some single oils, and some blends. I have also been blending oils together, and everything is just awesome. A couple of things that I have been doing are:

Sleep: I diffuse Frankincense, and then apply Lavender to the bottom of my feet. Has been awesome for a good nights rest, waking up refreshed!

Migraines: Panaway- I use two drops on my temples, sinuses, as well as the back of my neck.. Gone!

Teething & sleep for Daniel- 4 drops of Gentle Baby in his bath, 1 drop Lavender on his feet, Frankincense diffused, as well as Clove/ Thieves diluted and can be applied directly on the gums...Immediate life saver!

Immune boost- 2 drops of Lemon in my water, as well as Thieves diffused and applied on bottom of feet(at night).

Congestion- Peppermint in a bowl of steaming water, breathe in.. Cleared my congestion for the whole night.

I am just getting started on these oils, and am learning more each day! There are TONS of uses for each oil (singles or blends). I have already had many people give me recipes for everything you can think of.


Take a look at my website, and if you want to sign up as a wholesale member or just a retail customer trying some for the first time you may go to sign up:
https://www.youngliving.org/kelseycastellon


If there are any questions you may have, feel free to contact me directly!

The countdown to ONE begins!

Gosh.. 11 months.. I still am having difficulty wrapping my mind around this!

Now that March is in swing, it is crunch time for his 1st Birthday. I am so excited and emotional about it. I really don't believe that he is turning one, it does not feel like a year.

On that note, here are some fun things that happened this past month.

Walking!- He is getting closer and closer to walking without assistance. He walks now when I hold one hand, side by side.

Words- Duh(duck), OO OO(woof, woof...we're around dogs a lot, so when I say doggy, he automatically starts to "bark")

Foods- really loves broccoli, starting to like more fresh fruits (kiwi, melon, pineapple), not digging meats alone right now, but does love spaghetti with ground beef

Activities- wagon rides, peek-a-boo with doors (crawls behind a closes/opens the door), swinging, slides, crawling all around, walking, opening and getting into everything, bath time, swimming and reading. He loves to be read to, and he insists on flipping the pages. He is very independent, and will NOT let you help him with something, he will push your hand away and do it himself.

He loves to watch Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and Jake & The Neverland Pirates in the morning with breakfast.

He is a little over 2 and 1/2 feet tall and weighs somewhere between 22-25 pounds, not exactly sure, but he doesn't seem much heavier, and is evening out. He naps twice a day now, since he wakes up at 7am, or earlier each day.

Beautiful Moments

Days are hectic. From morning to night, there are so many things in between that go by without the blink of an eye. Our nursing time is often one of those. I usually have my phone, scrolling through Instagram or Facebook.

Looking back at the old photos yesterday, I realized that I am taking these moments for granted. There are so many mothers who would do anything to have this bond with their child, to share this sweet and innocent time with them. 

Every night I nurse, and then rock Daniel to sleep. Without a fail, it is what soothes him and gets him to bed. It's not only comforting to him, but to me as well. It is our way of winding down together. As I look at Daniel, I realize how much time is actually passing, how much time I take for granted.

He is so big now, the size of my whole upper body, and past my hips. But at night, when he is nursing in the rocking chair, I still see my newborn baby. (Insert crying hormonal momma here..AKA..Me right now). He is so innocent and pure, and I always wonder how I got so lucky with him. God has blessed me with such an amazing gift, an amazing bond with my son that is unbreakable. He needs me, but I actually need him more.

Breastfeeding is a beautiful thing. Most pass it by as sexual, time consuming, hard, not worth it, etc..etc. That's all wrong. It is worth it to push past the growth spurts, the long nights where you don't get a break because you're the only one feeding baby, milk supply issues.. It's worth it to have that bond with your child, (yes, formula feeding moms can bond with their babies too) but this bond is different. It's strong, reliable, never failing. I am so glad I pushed past everything that was becoming an obstacle, because he is worth it.

Don't take the simplest moments for granted. It's easy to because we get so wrapped up with whats going on during the day. But stop, sit down and appreciate the beautiful moments happening, as some people wish they could do the same.

What is "perfect"?

* Per - fect

having all the required or desirable elements, qualities, or characteristics; as good as it is possible to be. *

Why do people use this term so freely? Nothing is perfect. Let's face it, there is always something to be achieved. No body has the perfect life, because life is hard. I hear so many people tell me "I want your life, it's perfect." It's hard to hold back my tounge when I hear that. 

My life is NOT perfect, and I would never play it out to be that way. We struggle just like any other human being. Being a young mom & wife is stressful. There are so many things behind closed doors that I do not show to the world. Perception is killer. One can not possibly know everything about someone from what is posted on social media, therefor assumptions become made, and expectations start to happen. 

So many young girls want this "perfect" life. Marriage, family, a home, money... But at what price? Are you willing to throw your happiness away in order to have all this so young until it consumes you, and nothing is left but loneliness?

I love my husband, and I love my son. I have struggled with this whole thing happening so quick. Expenses add up, and it becomes overwhelming. I value happiness much more than jumping into something because I want a "perfect" life. Alex and I got married after almost four years of being together. We became best friends, and then spouses. I love our family, and I cherish it more than anything. I am truly happy, because we had time to work out our differences, and built a marriage on a solid foundation. That is the most important. 

If you're reading this, and you are one who wants to jump into everything at once... I ask you to wait. Build that foundation and grow from it. Get your mind out of fairy land, and step into reality. Stop assuming that every couple has a perfect life because that's what you see.. Things are much different than what they seem. 

About us!

Hey everyone! If you are a new reader than this post is made for you! It is just a quick intro of who we are. 

I am Kelsey. A wife to Alex, and mama to Daniel. I married Alex in 2012, and you can find our wedding post here. On April 1st, 2013 is when our bundle of joy entered the world!  

Since then, I have been adapting to being a Stay-At-Home-Mom and all of the other duties of a wife & mom! I would not have my life any other way.

In March of 2014, I began my journey with Young living Essential Oils. For those of you that are not familiar with EO's, head on over to my website where you can learn extensive info about them, aside from what I share. I use these daily in our lives to heal,protect, and nourish our bodies and minds. They have given us and many others such great relief, that I feel so blessed to share them with you. I have posts (usually) every week about them, so be sure to keep an eye out! 

This blog is my way of sharing my views, tips & tricks, and just updating everyone about our lives!

We hope you enjoy reading, and if there are ever any questions you may have, feel free to find the links on my sidebar and get in contact with me. I would love to hear from you =)

Controversial Parenting

This tag has been going around the Youtube community for quite some time now. I have read a couple of blogs, and decided to feature it on mine as well. These are some hot button topics, and I will share my honest opinion about them, as well as provide links for those who wish to educate themselves on the topics that I stand strongly for. I hope you find it interesting, and I'd like to hear what everyone else has to say.

Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice
* I am Pro-Life. I understand that there are circumstances where it was not the woman's choice to get pregnant (such as rape) however, I firmly believe that there are other options such as adoption. Everyone has the right to live, and I think it is unfair to take that away from an unborn baby.

Baby-wearing
* Love it! I have been wearing Daniel since he was a newborn. I had to search through many carriers to become comfortable with my two favorite. I also love my stroller. Sometimes my back hurts, or Daniel wants to wiggle around and play, a stroller is perfect for that. Whatever momma is comfortable with is what works for me.

Circumcision
* Daniel is NOT circumcised. This is the most debated topic among moms. I am strongly against circumcision of a newborn for NON-MEDICAL reasons. For any one to consent to their child's  painful genital cutting for cosmetic purposes-to look like their father, or because they think it's "cleaner" is absurd to me. If daddy has his ears pierced, will you pierce your son's also? No... As for the cleaner reason, is it that hard to teach your son to wash himself properly? All of these MYTHS have been debunked over and over again. Female genital cutting has been made illegal, and I am happy to know that male genital cutting is WELL on it's way to becoming illegal as well. Leave your perfect boy WHOLE, he was born with it for MANY reasons. It is your job as a mom to research these things before your child is born, so here are some links.
http://www.drmomma.org/2009/09/functions-of-foreskin-purposes-of.html
http://www.intactamerica.org/
http://www.savingsons.org/
http://www.drmomma.org/2010/01/are-you-fully-informed.html

Adoption
* I think adoption is a beautiful thing. I know from a friends experience that it is heartbreaking & long at times, but also so selfless and joyful. I would love to adopt a baby. There are so many children longing for a loving home, and to be able to give that to a child couldn't bring me more happiness.

Baby Piercing
* I am against piercing babies. I feel that it should be the child's right what happens to their body. I didn't get my ears pierced until I was 7 I believe, and I made that choice. Same will apply if I have a daughter. Yes, it's cute.. It'll be cute when she's older too :)

Breast feeding vs. Formula
* Daniel is breastfed. I believe there is a time and place for formula. I know moms personally who would kill to exclusively breastfeed, but it is not happening for them. If formula works for you, great. As long as your baby is fed & thriving, that should be all that matters. I do however believe every mother should try to breastfeed, not just pass it off. It is the healthiest thing for your little baby, and yourself as well. I had issues in the beginning, and these links helped me push past them.
http://kellymom.com/category/bf/
https://www.facebook.com/Wemakemilk
http://www.bestforbabes.org/

Spanking
* I do not believe in spanking. I feel that there are other approaches of disciplining that are more beneficial to teaching your child right from wrong.

Home vs. Public vs. Private vs. Charter Schooling
* Thats a tounge twister! I love the idea of homeschooling, as long as there are plenty of other opportunities for the child to socialize. My husband and I were both in public schools (I was in private for a little while) and I feel that as long as they are good schools, then why not. If you have the money for private school, good for you! Whatever floats your boat is my view on this topic.


Vaccines
* Daniel IS vaccinated. I have been looking into other pediatricians that will do a delayed & staggered schedule, because I really hate the idea of him getting pricked so many times at once. My husband and I were vaccinated growing up, and I believe that they are created for many reasons. I know this is also a very hot subject, and I am still doing reading about vaccines. If you are a non-vax parent, I would love to hear your views.

Medicating
* I believe that there is a time and place for medicine. After all of the natural remedies have been exhausted and nothing is helping, medication is a wonderful alternative. I have only had to give Daniel Tylenol a handful of times after finding great natural remedies. If you have any questions about such things, please let me know and I would be happy to help.

Cloth vs. Disposable diapering
* I use disposable diapers with Daniel. I love the idea of cloth, and will most likely go that route with my next child. For disposables, we really love The Honest Company diapers. They're cute, and great on his sensitive tushie.

Cry- It- Out Method
* Heck no. I do not believe this is the right way to get your child to sleep. There are many ways to put a baby to sleep, and leaving he or she in a dark room alone to cry is NOT the way to do that. Daniel has been sleeping through the night all alone since 2 months old with out having to CIO. Does this mean that you can't leave the room for a minute to collect yourself? NO. I know there are times where you get super frustrated and need to calm down.
http://www.drmomma.org/2009/09/no-cry-sleep-solution-gentle-ways-to.html
http://kellymom.com/parenting/nighttime/sleep/
http://www.modernalternativemama.com/blog/2013/05/31/x-tips-for-teaching-your-baby-to-sleep/#.UwIqoUJdX6Q


I hope this can shed some light for other mommas out there. All the links provided have helped me tremendously to make the right decisions.

Be Mine

Love is in the air!

Happy late Valentines Day. We celebrated by going to lunch, taking a nap, and later I made a yummy dinner & dessert for the hubs and myself. Daniel had a big baked potato!

This holiday to me isn't about being extravagant in gifts, because that is just materialistic. I love to just spend quality time together, and that's what makes me happy.

I got some cute pictures of Daniel in the morning. It took TWO cookies to get a smile out of that stinker.

For dinner, I whipped up two nice Filets, loaded baked potatoes, and asparagus.. However, the asparagus did not cooperate with me, so that was left out. It was not missed!

As for dessert, our favorite is chocolate strawberries. While Daniel was napping, I melted the chocolate and got down to business. I like using Semi-Sweet chocolate, because as the name says, it's just semi sweet ;) As they were still hot I sprinkled some red sprinkles on them.... Ta Da!! 

We hoped you enjoyed your romantic day as much as we did. 

Lots of love

xoxo